The first natural burial ground opened almost thirty years ago, but many people still have little idea about what a natural burial might entail. It’s not a conversation most have until it’s needed! As a result, there is still a fair amount of misinformation around, some of which becomes apparent when visitors ask questions, let slip assumptions or tell us what they’ve been told. Here are the ten most common myths that we’ve heard. Believe it or not, I’ve listed them in the order of how common the misunderstanding seems to be.
Path Beside Seth’s Wood at Sun Rising
MYTH 1: At a natural burial ground, people are buried standing up. Absolutely not! There would seem few things less natural than upright burial, after all. At a natural burial ground, the priority is to provide a natural, peaceful resting place. Certainly there has been some research carried out into how burial might be done with coffins upright, but this is for space-saving reasons at crowded urban cemeteries, and definitely not natural burial grounds.
MYTH 2: Natural burial grounds are only for people with no religious faith. This may be true of some, but not many – and definitely not Sun Rising! Natural burial is available to people of all beliefs, just as it is open to people of any gender, sexuality, age, race and nationality. As long as there is respect for others laid to rest at Sun Rising, and those who might visit them, anyone is welcome.
MYTH 3: If you have had cancer you can’t be buried at a natural burial ground. Or, more specifically, the myth asserts that if you have undergone chemotherapy or radiotherapy, you have to be cremated or buried in a sealed coffin. During the pandemic, this myth also extended to include those who had died of COVID. I even heard this myth from someone selling a pre-paid funeral plan at a large chain of funeral directors. It is complete nonsense. Some worry about hip replacements or pacemakers, and other medical implants. These should not affect the option of a natural burial.
MYTH 4: A natural burial ground isn’t an option after a post-mortem. This is not true. Where a post mortem autopsy is required to establish the cause of someone’s death, this may delay the burial. However, it shouldn’t otherwise affect it. Most natural burial grounds don’t allow embalmed bodies, but embalming is not an automatic part of an autopsy.
MYTH 5: Nobody can attend a burial at a natural burial ground. This is not the case at all. Some natural burial grounds may have a limit on how many can attend, but this is in order to protect the nature reserve or because parking is restricted. At Sun Rising, the limit is 80 people.
MYTH 6: At natural burial grounds, people are buried without a coffin. Most natural burial grounds will allow burial in shrouds, but this is by no means mandatory! The vast majority are buried in coffins. These do usually need to be fully biodegradable, with the majority being willow, wicker or other woven materials, cardboard, or unvarnished pine. The standard MDF, wood-veneered coffins are not permitted, nor the expensive ‘American’ style coffins.
MYTH 7: At natural burial grounds, graves are very shallow. Most people assume that a grave must be 6′ deep. This is not the case in Britain. A depth of 6′ is only needed if a second burial is expected in the same grave. Where there is to be only one burial, 4′ is perfectly adequate, and many natural burial grounds only offer single graves.
MYTH 8: Natural burials are for the rich. Some natural burial grounds are expensive, but these tend to be in the South East and around London, where all cemeteries can be pricey. Most natural burial grounds are not at all expensive. At Sun Rising, as an ethical company, we strive to do all we can to make a burial affordable, giving families options that will take the cost down further, such as using our Simple Arrangement Service and using family bearers. In a beautiful environment, you don’t need to spend lots of money on flowers, limousines and all the extras. Nature’s peace and beauty makes a funeral special.
MYTH 9: At a natural burial ground, all graves are unmarked. This varies at different burial grounds. At Sun Rising, woodland plots can be marked, so family and friends can always know the exact spot. Meadow graves are not marked, but a plaque can be placed on a shared pathside post. By law, we need to know exactly where every grave is, so it is always possible to locate the spot.
MYTH 10: At a natural burial ground, people can walk over the graves. This isn’t so much a myth about natural burial grounds as it is a question about burials in general. In most old churches, there are burials under the aisles. In most churchyards and cemeteries, people walk around the headstones and over the graves. At Sun Rising, we suggest that if visitors know there is a grave, don’t walk on it; if the grave has greened over, and so isn’t evident, don’t worry!